Oh goodness… You are beautiful Chrissie, and you were then, too. I’m so sorry. What supportive grandparents you had. This is such an insightful, beautifully written piece. I felt your hurt, and your strength in battling those hurtful words. I also understand how this could last a lifetime… my mother said something similar to me several times throughout my life. Sadly, her words still sting even though she has passed. Thank you for writing this.