What a powerful article, Kerry. It brought tears to my eyes as I struggled just yesterday to share a story with my son about his dad who died when he was 12. I can see the pain in his eyes, but also the curiosity of wanting to know as much as he can about his father. My daughter just had her first baby and she longs for her Dad to see his first grandson. Such a hole in their hearts that I can only attempt to fill with stories and love. Thank you so much for your article. Beautifully expressed.